Empowerment

Are you stressed?

Their are going to be moments in your life where you will have to focus on one thing and let the others things rest . Are you stressed ?

Have you been eating right? Have you been obsessing about your weight? Are you stressed?

Do you feel bad when you haven’t worked out ?Do you beat yourself up?

Do you feel pressure and anxiety right now with everything  your doing?

Do you believe that you can multitask ? Is your multitasking stressing you out?

Are you feeling overwhelmed i this season?

What is a priority in one season may not be a priority in another season. There are going to be moments in your life where you will need to be satisfied in one area so you can shift the perspective into another area. You need to be able to allow some things rest while other things are being built.

In my mind, I am wonder woman, super woman, and everything to everyone. But that will stress you out and you need BALANCE which means you  need to be allowed to release one thing so you can tend and care for another thing.

Stop beating yourself up. You are amazing friend. Always remember you have endless potential!

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I Just Wanna Breathe!

Have you ever felt anxious ? Have you ever felt like your mind needed to breathe but couldn’t? Have you ever felt crazy?

Sometimes I feel like my mind is going 100 mph and there is no stopping. I have events and things I want to accomplish before I get 30. I have goals to attain. I don’t have time for stopping and breathing.

I want to be a self-made millionaire. I want to have my own business. I want to have my career at 100,000 by age 26. I want to be a inspiration. I want to start the Youtube Channel. I want to start the podcast.I want to motivate people. I want to start the nonprofit.

Its like our minds have a million things on them everyday and your chasing after something. Your chasing after independence, after a Home, after a Man, after a Woman, after a Business, or even after Peace. Its like if we get all the things we worry about, we won’t have to worry anymore about anything, like we can finally be at peace.

But the truth is… We’ll never be at peace if we chase things, business and money.Money makes the world go round though right?

Wrong,  money can’t bring you joy, it can bring you happiness for a while but the true reason why our mind is always racing is because we’re trying to fill our lives with something. Anything to fill the void in our heart.

What are you trying to fill the void in your life with?

2 Corinthians 5:17 says  Therefore if anyone is in Christ , they are a new creation, old things are passed away , behold ALL thing are made new.

When God enters your life His Holy Spirit will take residence in your heart and the void of emptiness is filled and you will become whole.

So if your feeling like your not whole right now and their is a void of some sort in your life and your feeling kind of crazy. Talk to God and ask Him to fill the void and have FAITH that He’s going to do it.

I love you friend. Always remember you have endless potential.

 

Empowerment

Growing Pains

In a world full of so much uncertainty, the older you get the more pain you obtain,

even through the rain its sometimes hard to stay sane.

In a world full of so much uncertainty the more I learn of the birds and the bees, the more I can see it doesn’t obtain to just me.

There is a generation today that praises  flings and things it brings. But all it produces is situationships.

Yes. I said situationships ; a relationship thats not really a realationship, based on circumstantial situations that haven’t played out yet to be a friendship or commitment. The dictionary version to a person, when one finds themselves in a situation with someone else without commitment.

No it’s not a side hoe, but everything goes and it doesn’t have a title but there’s the feeling of love there.

Yes I said feeling the one that keeps tingling in your body sending chills down your spine saying you’re all mine.

Right?…..                 Wrong.

Yes it feels like love. I said it FEELS like love.  Fake  love but not a real love a fictional love that lasts only about a day, a week, a month, maybe even a year. To be clear , this is the definition of this generation.

You see when you find yourself in a situationship it produces growing pains. These pains won’t substain the whole in your heart. So it would be best to part, to be smart about your growing pains…

You see it may be time to part ways and recognize your growing pains. The older you get the more you can see that whole in your  heart should never part from a REAL love.

Depression, Anxiety , Loneliness, and Overthinking produces growing pains that stain your heart to find the worse kind … of love. But what you want is that Jesus type of love.

A love that lasts past the ages of time, a love that will shine through the waves of uncertainty, a love that will carry your burdens and never be shipwrecked .

You want someone to sail the seas with ,  hopping on a boat to every nation ,  flying to a  a paradise location  domesticated,  no matter the destination.

You see these growing pains… They are learning to simmer down because God is the winner now. He’s the tylenol I take, as I realize the people in my life can be so very fake.

But He never dissapoints  ….. I talk to Him  like a friend and  slowly He takes the pain away.

 

 

 

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*Cue Madea’s Voice “ALL MY LIFE I HAD TO FIGHT “

I dream of a day when my worries and stress will leave, when all I can do is dream of the day that I’ll be able to relieve the pressure in my head that’s increasing in my brain flushing the pain away .

But How sway?!

How can I be stress free in today’s society?

Instagram can you help me? Twitter can you @ me? I’m lost in a whirlwind of  stress entangling me more and more past my insecurities and tying me down to the ground.

Vision where did you go ? Why did you leave me?

Finding life  and peace of mind is hard to find. Sometimes I  need a break, to  shake back in life and fade away from the fake.

In this season, I’m learning that over time people show  you their true colors. Friends come for a season but they always teach you a reason to guard your heart. Watch who you  trust  because putting certain levels on them  can  bust the trust you’ve given. But a snake is a snake ,always fake , it only changes it outward appearance. So stop putting your love on clearance.

 

Maya Angelou said it best.  “When people show you who they are….Believe them. The first time.”

Learning not to be a fool, but to use the tool of wisdom. Each day you learn and grow, so you can be  able to have your mind flow with peace and tranquility.

Nomaste. Be great.

 

Empowerment

Dear, Fear…

Dear Fear,

The truth is you almost had me. The uncanny motion of life warped around my brain and it began to be too much to bear. The walls you’ve confined me in have been safe and comforting.The place you have built has become my safe haven. I used to be a slave to you and I gave you too much credit.  I was bound up.There was no escape because the bars around my vision had no way of  breaking out.You made sure I couldn’t see the light and it felt so dark… For a while.

But one day,  I began to see your chains. I began to see your hold and death grip on me that was so tight I couldn’t breathe. Each gasp for air was an extreme cry to God. You tried to choke the life out of me but it didn’t work. You can’t have me any longer. I’m severing our ties. This motionless girl was scared to kill you. It was a bitter taste in my mouth everytime I spoke and you were there. I was the scared girl.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here.This relationship doesn’t work for me anymore. I’ve found out who I am.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here.  Because now I can see that purpose wasn’t planned. There was a level of grace that you didn’t see or understand… and His name Jesus. He lifted and sifted through all of her broken pieces and they no longer exist.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here.The  broken girl had to leave.  The girl who let people walk over her had to go. The depressed girl had to go. The lonely girl had to go. The girl who felt anxiety everytime she woke up had to go. That girl is no more. She’s left and has no plans of visiting you anymore. She’s been deleted. Finito!  Presto because that girl removed your chains from her. There’s no more room for you in her life.  There’s no place for you here. Because she messed around and figured out who God really made her to be.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here.That girl you loved.That girl became a woman. A wild woman ready to take on her own wilderness and walk on water in order to achieve her own dreams.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here.She is ferocious on the inside. She’s fearless and unmatched .She moves to the beat of her own drum. She has no limitations.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here.She is beautiful and talented. She has a VOICE that she will give to the nations. She is bright like a shining star. You can watch her but you can’t touch her. She is irreplaceable. She carries herself and drips melanin and gold. She has skin like honey and loves to share her story untold.

Goodbye fear. You have no place here. She carries wisdom in her right hand and honor in her left. She is more precious than jewels an nothing can compare with her. She is a WILD WOMAN with WILD POTENTIAL ready to take on anything that stands in her way because that’s the way God intended for her to be.

I know you think we’ll get back together. But I’m happy to tell you we have no future together. HAH This is THE END!

So Goodbye fear. You have no place here.

Empowerment

Watching Michael Todd

Michael Todd is one of the dopest pastors of today’s time. The way he breaks down his sermons is remarkable. He’s blazed a path for millennials to know what God really has for them .

Yesterday he spoke about how we have so little funds but we know we are destined for greatness. He spoke about being planted by God while being underfunded . Money is a monetary thing but everyone needs it. Money is what makes the world go round right?

Money is like a seed. When you invest in stocks…You want your stock to multiply right? You want your stock to grow . Just like when you plant a seed in your garden, you also want that to grow. Nobody wants their seed to stay the same. The same environment that you plant a seed in , is the same area that looks buried. When you look at something planted and something that was buried they tend to look the same. When your going through that season they tend to look the same. But what God is telling us is that your life may look buried, it may look dead , but God is planting us. Under doesn’t mean over.

God is developing roots in you so that when the enemy comes against you …You are able to stand firm in what God is calling you to do.

Under doesn’t mean over.

Let’s talk about Being Planted and Underfunded.

God is looking for people who have faith to believe that they can exceed their limitation. He allows you to be under so your faith can grow .God doesn’t bless who you pretend to be.

PhillipIan’s 4:19 But My God, will supply all my needs.Don’t blame the place for the provision for being stagnant and having no vision. Thats why so many of us want to move to LA,NY,Etc etc. Because we feel that a place will fill our purpose. But the same God that’s here with you will be where your trying to move . Millennials won’t stay planted long enough to see where those roots are. But God is doing something IN you in this season.

Organize even when you feel overwhelmed . The disciples took the little bit they had and gave it back to God. When the disciples had 5 loaves of bread and only 2 fish . Jesus blessed and broke it and gave it back to the disciples in mutliplication.

What will you do with the little God has given you?

When your planted and underfunded…Don’t eat your seed. What do you spend the majority of your money on? Will you depend on God?

As the disciples kept giving away..God kept multiplying the seed in their hands. It’s not about the outcome it’s about their obedience. They all ate..as much as they wanted . God is not asking you to do it so He can leave you depleted. Stop listening to the lie that your buried. You are being rooted .