Empowerment

UNCERTAINTY

When you feel uncertain about where your heading, it almost like pressure is always on your shoulders. You feel like the whole weight of the world lies on you. Its draining to say the least.

I feel like the moment you give up on your dreams is when you start to procrastinate and your procrastination then leads to settling for where you are. The period between the vision and actual manifestation is actually the hardest period because you can’t see the end. I think that’s the most frustrating part.

There is a peace in our generation when we know the outcome. There is a sense of peace when you know how much time something will take and you’ve seen the desired outcome. Sometimes, seeing is believing and wen we cant see ourselves being the doctor, being the lawyer, being the CEO, it creates uncertainty in our hearts. It creates uncertainty in our mind and I think that’s when the devil attacks us the most.

I want to speak life for you that you won’t be bound by the pressure you’re feeling  day to day. God sees you and He’s working behind the scenes for your good. Faith is not seen but FAITH is required in this season.

Submit your vision to God in prayer and He will make everything clear. I pray for your strength and that you will see full manifestation of what God has for you. Keep thriving friend and remember you have endless potential.

Empowerment

I Just Wanna Breathe!

Have you ever felt anxious ? Have you ever felt like your mind needed to breathe but couldn’t? Have you ever felt crazy?

Sometimes I feel like my mind is going 100 mph and there is no stopping. I have events and things I want to accomplish before I get 30. I have goals to attain. I don’t have time for stopping and breathing.

I want to be a self-made millionaire. I want to have my own business. I want to have my career at 100,000 by age 26. I want to be a inspiration. I want to start the Youtube Channel. I want to start the podcast.I want to motivate people. I want to start the nonprofit.

Its like our minds have a million things on them everyday and your chasing after something. Your chasing after independence, after a Home, after a Man, after a Woman, after a Business, or even after Peace. Its like if we get all the things we worry about, we won’t have to worry anymore about anything, like we can finally be at peace.

But the truth is… We’ll never be at peace if we chase things, business and money.Money makes the world go round though right?

Wrong,  money can’t bring you joy, it can bring you happiness for a while but the true reason why our mind is always racing is because we’re trying to fill our lives with something. Anything to fill the void in our heart.

What are you trying to fill the void in your life with?

2 Corinthians 5:17 says  Therefore if anyone is in Christ , they are a new creation, old things are passed away , behold ALL thing are made new.

When God enters your life His Holy Spirit will take residence in your heart and the void of emptiness is filled and you will become whole.

So if your feeling like your not whole right now and their is a void of some sort in your life and your feeling kind of crazy. Talk to God and ask Him to fill the void and have FAITH that He’s going to do it.

I love you friend. Always remember you have endless potential.

 

Empowerment

Growing Pains

In a world full of so much uncertainty, the older you get the more pain you obtain,

even through the rain its sometimes hard to stay sane.

In a world full of so much uncertainty the more I learn of the birds and the bees, the more I can see it doesn’t obtain to just me.

There is a generation today that praises  flings and things it brings. But all it produces is situationships.

Yes. I said situationships ; a relationship thats not really a realationship, based on circumstantial situations that haven’t played out yet to be a friendship or commitment. The dictionary version to a person, when one finds themselves in a situation with someone else without commitment.

No it’s not a side hoe, but everything goes and it doesn’t have a title but there’s the feeling of love there.

Yes I said feeling the one that keeps tingling in your body sending chills down your spine saying you’re all mine.

Right?…..                 Wrong.

Yes it feels like love. I said it FEELS like love.  Fake  love but not a real love a fictional love that lasts only about a day, a week, a month, maybe even a year. To be clear , this is the definition of this generation.

You see when you find yourself in a situationship it produces growing pains. These pains won’t substain the whole in your heart. So it would be best to part, to be smart about your growing pains…

You see it may be time to part ways and recognize your growing pains. The older you get the more you can see that whole in your  heart should never part from a REAL love.

Depression, Anxiety , Loneliness, and Overthinking produces growing pains that stain your heart to find the worse kind … of love. But what you want is that Jesus type of love.

A love that lasts past the ages of time, a love that will shine through the waves of uncertainty, a love that will carry your burdens and never be shipwrecked .

You want someone to sail the seas with ,  hopping on a boat to every nation ,  flying to a  a paradise location  domesticated,  no matter the destination.

You see these growing pains… They are learning to simmer down because God is the winner now. He’s the tylenol I take, as I realize the people in my life can be so very fake.

But He never dissapoints  ….. I talk to Him  like a friend and  slowly He takes the pain away.

 

 

 

Empowerment

Is Your Love On Clearance?

Lately I have realized that I have put my love on clearance. What I mean by that is  I have succumbed to the lowest percentage of love given and been content with it.

I  have put my love on clearance by accepting the bare minimum from people who I know and love. I have accepted the sorriness of  effort given in every way.

I have put my love on clearance by going out of my way to make other feel comfortable and expect nothing in return. Many nights there for others but having no one listen to my cry.

I have put my love on clearance by teaching others how to treat me. Mean may seem uncompassionate but I was ever so green to know to lean on the fake. Its really crazy ow people will misuse you. Truth is, they can give the bare minimum and expect everything and then some in return.

I have put my love on clearance by accepting the pain and strain of  those near me and saying nothing. I’v become numb to the pain in my heart and have accepted that this is just another way of life.

I have put my love on clearance by accepting no text backs and one-sided relationships. If its just me then its not a relationship right?

I have put my love on clearance by letting friends become wishy washy and still accepting them. I haven’t watched my inner self and realized how it affected me.

I have put my love on clearance by creating a sense of apathy for myself. I’ve laid my heart down on the line for others expecting nothing in return, saving them from their pits of despair and anguish.

I’ve put my love on clearance by putting my heart for sale and selling it  to the lowest bidder. There was no more negotiating this,  it was torn into rags and all there was left were the tags .

But the rags of my heart were greater than I ever knew was possible. Undependable, unsustainable , unfathomable, imaginable greater than I ever knew how to mend.

So I took a dose of Jesus to numb the pain and all there was left was a stain. A crimson stain that washed all the rain, away in my heart and oneday the sun came out shining its light ever so bright .

I didn’t want to fight, I just wanted you to know that night may come……But joy comes in the morning.

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Keep that same energy!

I feel like I give everyone so much attention and I pour soooooo much of my energy into other people.  And I don’t even get any of the same energy back not even remotely.WHY THOUGH?

Why do we go out of our way for others and they don’t even remotely go out of the way for us?People don’t even realize half the stuff you really do for them. So why do you do it?

I have learned that true intentionality is putting yourself out there. But why stick your neck out for others when theirs no reciprocity? Why use the energy to bring positivity if its never appreciated?

The sad truth is you have to have boundaries. The sad truth is that you have to protect your energy. Protect your mind and your heart. Without boundaries we can’t have peace. The truth is we have to know when to walk away from things that no longer serve us. You have to pray and ask God to release toxic people from your life.

The thing about toxins is that nothing ever grows from it. So know how to recognize the signs and when your spirit is no longer being edified through that friendship or relationship. This is key. Because your friends and relationships should be equally yoked.  The real meaning of equally yoked is when two oxen hold each other up.A yoke is a wooden bar that joins two oxen to each other and to the burden they pull. An “unequally yoked” team has one stronger ox and one weaker, or one taller and one shorter. The weaker or shorter ox would walk more slowly than the taller, stronger one, causing the load to go around in circles. When oxen are unequally yoked, they cannot perform the task set before them. Instead of working together, they are at odds with one another. If one oxen is bigger,taller and doing more  the pulley won’t go anywhere it actually travels in a full circle. So then you have two oxen not going anywhere in life.

Your relationships are the same. If there’s an unequal balance and your doing all the work. You won’t go any where. You will find yourself at the same spot over and over and over again. You don’t want that.

Protect your energy and protect your peace.